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Dear Anne Curt-ly, {Sappy and Sentimental}

 

Dear Anne Curt-ly,

 

Dear Anne Curt-ly,

There is so much to get done before I go home. I can’t believe another semester is over! I’ve always heard the old phrase, “Stop and smell the roses” but I DON’T HAVE TIME TO. How can I make the most of my time left here?

Yours,

Sappy and Sentimental

 

Dear Sap,

Whoever wrote that sappy and Pinterest-esk statement provided us here in the trenches with a warning. Stay with me here. We mustn’t be too engaged with our busy work that we miss out on the big picture. But there again-I understand your dilemma. How can one stop and smell the roses if one does not have the time to breathe?

Well, I suppose I will try and give you the best advice I can regarding this topic. I found that moments in life, whether good or bad to be extremely fleeting. And I hate to break it to you- but things that seemed so important yesterday might soon be forgotten tomorrow. At any rate, if you focus all your time on “stopping to smell the roses”, you might be so focused that you actually miss the moment entirely. So instead of “stopping to smell the roses” why don’t you use this adage instead; “wherever you are- be all there.” Learn to enjoy the moments for what they are and don’t wish them away with statements like, “When I get older.” With that said, please learn to give yourself some slack. You won’t always be in the moment, I understand.

You also might not be able to get the perfect Instagram shot with the perfect hipster aesthetic and the deer snapchat filter (my, how funny your modern day words are to me!) but at least this way you might be able to – in your own way- stop and smell the roses. This way when you look back at moments like Christmas Parties, or lectures, or what have you- you can look at them proudly without regret. So, in summary, learn to give yourself a little slack. You might not be able to capture all the moments.

Signing off,

Anne Curt-lydearannecurtly

 

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Student Living: Mental Health

The Hardest Words to Say: Are You Okay?

Welcome to college, Judson Girl!

Whether you’ve spent three years at Judson or this is your first semester, I bet you could use a few words of encouragement right now. Good job. Keep going. Everything is going to be alright. I am more than willing to provide you with these words anytime (Come find me in Barron 101). But the fact of the matter is that practically everyone on campus would love to help build you up, and you don’t have to wait until you are drowning to ask for help.

Are you feeling homesick? There is a balance to strike. Some people go home every weekend and call their mom twice a day. That may be fine for them. Some people detach completely from home and their parents won’t know if they’re alive until Christmas. That may be fine for them. You, however, will likely fall somewhere in the middle. Do allow yourself to find the parts of Judson that make it feel like home to you, but if you miss your friends, don’t deprive yourself of hearing their voice.

Are your studies more than you can handle? Find someone in your class who is more comfortable in the subject who can help you. Find an “upperclasswoman” who saved her notes from last semester. Visit a lab or study session. Are you falling behind on homework or stuck on a paper? Go to the library, take a deep breath, sip a cappuccino, and ask a librarian for help. They’ve heard it all.

Are you beyond stressed out and having an existential crisis every hour? Consider visiting the campus counselor Dr. Tamela Turner, or one of the Marion ministers. There is no shame in talking to someone when you are overwhelmed. Everyday ways to help relieve stress include taking a few extra minutes in the morning in prayer, using the punching bag at the fitness center, taking a B-complex vitamin, diffusing lavender essential oil, listening to your favorite song, or taking a ten-minute nap.

Or are you just having a hard day? We’ve all had them. Find your RA, your RD, your best friend, or a random stranger in the hallway. “Hey, I’m in a horrible mood. May I have a hug?” They will most likely indulge you, no questions asked.

Most importantly, be kind to yourself. You can’t do it all on your own, and honestly, no one expects you to so. It’s going to be okay.

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Alice @ Wonderland

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The 2016 Pageant was an unqualified success, and the junior-soph class should be congratulated upon their performance. The story follows Alice (played with charm by Bailey Davis) as she searches for her phone charger, happening upon Wonderland in the process. She meets a number of strange people along the way, including the smoking caterpillar (Holly Brock), the shade-throwing Cheshire cats (Sam Queijsen and Kathleen Morgan) and the ever-delightful Humpty-Dumpty (Shelby Lauzon).

The songs ranged from the hip hop style of the Mulberry Bush number to the 80’s pop aura of the Jaguar anthem. What made the play truly delightful, however, was how it tied in the Judson atmosphere. The costumes all featured the “I Heart MBS” motif, and various references throughout the play raised laughter from the audience. These included a rueful nod to “bad Judson Wifi,” and a promise to the flowers: “I won’t pick you, I’m not a senior.” And of course, one can hardly forget Jessica Thompson’s mirthful rendering of Anne Kirtley.

This year’s pageant gave the freshman class something to live up to. Audience member Heather Carlson noted, “It was really entertaining, and I am looking forward to next year when I get to be a part of it.”

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New Art Exhibit Causes Questions

By : Jordan Ross, Opinion Editor

Many faculty, staff and students alike have seen the new additions to the walls that reside in the lobby of Tucker. No doubt passersbys have been left with numerous questions. With no name indicating who the creator was or what the purpose behind these paintings were, on lookers were left with a sense of curiosity and possible hesitancy.

If you too have wondered questions such as these, look no further. These works of art are the creation of our own Mr. Nicholas Tisdale. Professor Tisdale was kind enough to take on a few questions about his exhibit to further clarify the purpose of his painting.

“There is a certain kind of familiarity with political and historical portraits.” Professor Tisdale became intrigued with the relationship between the featured historical figures and the messages thereby conveyed (by said figures). What would happen if he distorted this “body of work”? Would this change the message of the paintings? Would their glory be defiled or decreased? And that is exactly what he set out to do. He was able to “through various analog and digital methods, mimic the aesthetic of mass-production. He then began to blot out the main subject by process of various and abrasive means such as: scraping and sanding.

With the lack of a focal point in the form of a historically know subject, something that could be considered loss also provided us, the viewers, with a new truth. According to Professor Tisdale, “They(the images) act less as honest tools of information or records of memory but instead as forms of manipulation.” These portraits are not “records of memory” or sought after, “honest tools of information.” Professor Tisdale would instead offer this explanation, “The removal of the central figures calls attention to the manufactured meaning of the portraits.”

As always, we here at Judson have the opportunity, especially when our own professors are involved, to delve a little further into the meaning of the exhibit. We were able to pick at Professor Tisdale’s brain regarding his exhibit. Here’s what we found out…

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I met God at an Arena

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“Would God really be at a horse arena? The answer, without a doubt is yes.”

-Vanessa Nicholson

You’ve undoubtedly heard of the phrase, “Horse Whisperer” before. Perhaps your mind wanders to a “Flicka” like moment when a horse and rider become one –remember to include the heart string pulling soundtrack provided. On the other hand, you might recall rough riding and a ****struggle/ of the wills. However, I would wager that you’ve never experienced a horse event like this, at least I didn’t.

Late September I was notified of this Horse Whispering event. Originally I was supposed to cover it for JudsonNOW as well as to publicize the Equine Department. I, being a novice horse person, “a greenhorn” as it were, was very intrigued by the opportunity to attend. It was to be held on Judson’s Campus just down the hill at our own barn. The event would be held at 6 p.m. on September 21st.  The concessions would benefit according to the email, “brand new Judson College chapter of the

American Collegiate Horseman Association.”

Unbeknownst to me, many things were coming together to make this event something unlike what I had ever witnessed before. Pastor John, head pastor of Siloam had canceled Wednesday night services so that his church congregation might be able to attend. Personally, I thought this was curious but thought nothing more of it. From what I’ve gathered, thanks to Mrs. Jennifer Hoggle, this event was the birth child of the Cahaba Baptist Association and Mr. Bill Wallace “in an effort to bring an evangelical opportunity to our area in hopes of reaching people in our communities.” Unfortunately, “Brother Bill” (as he was known by the community) passed away before the actual event could take place. And I would be amiss not to add the numerous amount of prayers that were offered up.

The faces of young, old, students and community members alike lined up to see a young colt (aptly named) Pistol make his entrance into the little round pen. As the horse wrangler began to speak, I realized that this wouldn’t be any ordinary rodeo. He spoke about the horse as a reflection of our own human condition in relationship to God. As the wrangler waited for the horse to simply look at him, so God waits for us to simply look at Him. Each lesson the young horse learned could be compared to our relationship with God.

Within the hour there was an altar call of sorts. The saddle with what the young colt had finally submitted to was laid in the middle of the round pen. Those who were tired of running away were offered a space to come and finally give anything and all to God, right there in the middle of a round pen. People slowly began to trickle into this round pen. It was intriguing to see the dynamic of strangers and friends sharing in this experience and praying for one another. For many people, this was where there relationship was renewed.

I asked Mrs. Vanessa Nicholson what she would have people learn about this event. What would she have students take away? She provided me with this insightful answer. “God is at work everywhere, all the time… Location is never a barrier to God and His work.  He can use all situations, environments, and events to show Himself.”

On a personal note, I understand this article is a little different from most. But I feel as though this event needed to be covered in a different light, with a different voice. With that said, this event (which I had originally expected to be about horsemanship) was undoubtedly unique and one that I won’t readily forget. Personally, I was faced with the condition of my own heart. At to this day, this event makes me continually wonder, am I willing to let God have control? But enough about me, I would like to leave you with a personal testimony.

There was a young man from Siloam that attended the Horse Whisperer event. He pointed over to the far side of the horse arena and said, “This is where my relationship with the Lord began.” He had attended Cowboy Church at the arena 2 years ago. Would God really be at a horse arena? The answer, without a doubt is yes.

Thanks to Mrs. Hoggle and Mrs. Nicholson for contributing their comments in order to write this article. They were greatly appreciated. -JR

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Dear Anne Curt-ly,

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Dear Anne Curt-ly,

Hi! BIG fan. I was wondering if you could give me advice on dealing with homesickness… I am a third year after all and I should have learned to deal with it by now.

Helpless and Homesick

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Dear Helpless and Homesick,

Everyone gets homesick.

Get over it.

What?  Was that reply too curt-ley?

Alright, alright… Due to the topic of this letter, I have attempted to put more of my heart on my sleeve and all that sappy to do. First off, thank you for writing in. May I remind you that you must be careful of whom you are a fanatic or “fan”…I hope I shan’t see my face on a t-shirt anytime soon.

I’ll get straight to the point.

You may be able to plan out many things regarding your college experience. You may have memorized where all your classes are, already have a topic in mind for your eight-plus-page paper and gotten all your books with color-coordinated planner. But after all your planning is done, you may not plan for one thing: homesickness.

First off, please know that you aren’t alone in your struggle. This is an absolutely normal part of your transition into college life. Whether you are a freshwoman, third year, or the Academic Dean yes you can and will deal with homesickness. One way to combat this sickness is by making an effort to allow Mother Judson to become your “home away from home.” Secondly, begin to explore your campus and scope out little quiet spots that you might call your own.  I have found the more you know the place at which you reside, the less you’ll feel the need to hide. Speaking of hiding, you may be tempted to stay in your room and continue to dwell on the fact that you are feeling homesick.

You’ve probably heard the old phrase, “You get out of it what you put into it.” You’ll soon find that this also true in college. Yes, it is perfectly normal to be homesick at times. In fact, reveling in a little self-pity is all well and good, I wouldn’t stay in that state longer than a day. I appreciate that you’ve taken the time to deal with this article as well as your homesickness.

I pray that you will remember to be as the ivy, continuously finding its place in the grand scheme of the intertwining vine. Thank you for writing in and remember, “If you don’t know the information then the next best thing is to know where to find it.”

Anne Curt-ly.

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Dear Anne Curt-ly,

HELP. I have 2 tests (one of them is for a WILSON class), 3 quizzes, I have glitter in my hair, 1 paper was due yesterday and 1 paper due tomorrow, and my hair was scorched by a candle. I am involved into too many clubs and head of everything. So, how do I balance everything?

Frazzled and Frustrated


Dear Frazzled and Frustrated,

Simply put. You can’t.

Let me explain what I mean.

What a load you have! I myself remember such a busy time in my life as well. And that is why I feel qualified to give you this advice. If you attempt to balance everything, you will balance nothing.

Let me first say, congratulations. You are on the right way to learning just how much you can handle. When you are at college there are so many things to experience. One of those things that you’ll experience is just how to handle your various responsibilities. Yes, they can seem overwhelming at times however there are a few ways to help prevent that.

First off, I would propose that you find a planner, or a calendar that would help you collect the dates, deadlines and study sessions that would arise. If you do not collect them somewhere, then you are more liable to forget them. Believe me, the best lie ever told goes something like this, “I don’t need to write it down, I’ll remember that.”

Secondly, consider what you have on your plate. As someone once told me when you say yes to something, you are also saying no to something. Take time to consider what you are saying yes to, and what you will ultimately be saying no to.

Lastly, learn how to say no. Go ahead and practice it. You won’t be able to do everything, there will be another ball, and you can join that club next semester.

May you soon be free and frolicking,

Anne Curtly

 

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Celebrating Constitution Day

 By : Jordan Ross, Opinion Editor

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Ever since Dr. Frazer arrived at Judson, he has pursued and advocated for a day in which we collectively step back and take a long look at our Constitution. On September 19th, for the ninth consecutive time, we as Faculty, members of College Administration, and the Judson sisterhood did just that.

 Simply put, Constitution Day is meant to promote and encourage the faculty, staff, and students of Judson College to grow in their knowledge and understanding of the Constitution. At the Ramsay McCrummen Chapel, as many as one hundred and eighteen people were able to attend this annual event. (For those of you who were wondering, this is the second highest attendance at Constitution Day since Dr. Frazer’s arrival!)

 Whether the audience was enticed by the possible extra-credit offered by departments, longed to show their support or just wanted to learn. Everyone attending was able to glean something from this hour long celebration. During the presentation, Ms. Bussey, Head of the Criminal Justice Department shared with us as Dr. Frazer so eloquently put it a “provocative and informative presentation on the Voisine Case.” Both student body and faculty heads were encouraged to ask questions and offer different views on the material discussed.

 After everyone had cleared out (in order to catch the dinner wave) a few select, including Ms. Dennison, Dr. Arnold, Dr. Stata and the hosts stayed so that they might discuss different policies, common knowledge, and the various perspective among them. Dr. Arnold was able to say this, “As always, I enjoyed the information provided.” He went on to state how he was troubled regarding the information presented. He concurred that an interesting discussion followed the presentation and both Frazer and Bussey “did a wonderful job with the program.”

 The very next day, an email was sent. Dr. Frazer gave us a lovely rundown of the events that had taken place, the numbers of people, a heartfelt thanks to those behind the scenes that made it possible, as well as an invitation to the next Constitution Day.

 

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